Wednesday, October 21, 2009

3 Years Ago Today...

Three years ago today, a lot of lives were changed forever. 1095 days ago I could never have imagined the trials, tears but more importantly triumphs that we would be a part of.



I received a phone call in the middle of the night, (the second one in 10 days of this kind) telling me that my husband had been very severely injured. ( I would soon come to know this as VSI -an actual medical term). I immediately called my in-laws and they were on a plane within hours to North Carolina where we waited for information for days until we found out that Dan would be transferred to Brooke Army Medical Center in San Antonio, Texas to be treated for numerous injuries, the most life-threatening being 3rd degree burns to 50% of his body. I recall this information not to be dramatic or re-tell a story most of you have already heard, but to thank our Lord and Savior for the compassion, comfort and truth that only He can give.



In our first meeting with the doctors, my in-laws and I heard their "best case scenario" for Dan. During this meeting, Dan was in ICU, with machines performing all functions so that he would continue to live. The doctors told us that he would have a MINIMUM of 5 skin graft surgeries, (more likely 8-10), be in ICU for 4 months, the hospital for another 4-6, and it wasn't IF he got an infection in his skin, but "when, how bad and would it kill him". But, on December 26, exactly 2 months after being admitted to the ICU, Dan walked out of the hospital after being in the ICU 3 1/2 weeks, having 3 skin graft surgeries and ABSOLUTELY NO skin infections. Smaller things, like the scarring on Dan's body, the strength and range of motion of his hands, his perfect eyesight and his energy should all have had different...worse outcomes. This testimony doesn't change who God was, is and forever will be, it changes US. God would still be as almighty, compassionate and loving if Dan had died three years ago or had followed the doctors predictions throughout his recovery, but for some reason, God chose to give us this beautiful testimony and we feel honored to receive it and tell of His almighty power and love forever.



Below are a few pictures from the last couple of years.



Dan, three months out, working the range of motion of his legs, as well as cardiovascular strength and endurance.

Our sweet Trey, who was only 19 months old at the time of Dan's injury in the hotel we lived in for 3 months


Dan on the treadmill


Dan and I, 5 1/2 months out, on Macy's birthday.


Almost 3 years later, Dan literally walked out the same gate that an ambulance had brought him through when his odds of survival were less than 50%.
How true are the words by H.C.G. Moule, "There is no situation so chaotic that God cannot, from that situation, create something that is surpassingly good. He did it at the creation. He did it at the cross. He is doing it today."


Thank you Lord for the last three years. I am not the same person, nor would I ever want to be.

8 comments:

Kitson Family said...

WOW!!!! It is about time!!! Glad you are still alive. :-)

Kitson Family said...

Ok...so I wrote my other comment before I read your post simply because I was so excited to see that you had added to your blog. You are Dan are incredible and we are changed by your testimony. Thank you for sharing how our incredible God has worked in your lives.

Elizabeth and Jace's Mom said...

So proud of you both! The courage and poise that you have shown over these past years is a true inspiration! Can't wait to see what the next three years brings for your beautiful family!!!

ellen said...

Thanks for an amazing post,Teal! How great is our God! We are so thankful for you and Dan, and the blessing, the testimony and the inspiration you two have been these last 3 years!
We always enjoy hearing what God is continuing to do in your lives, and we are praying for you!!

Jae and Sierra said...

I love it! Amen!

Rudy said...

I am honored to know you. Thank you for being so real and so trusting during all of this. You and your experiences were a piece of my personal spiritual journey. I needed to see you trust God like this, and turn to him like you did right away, from the first moment I talked with you after you received that call. I'll never forget that, and I'll never forget knowing that those were not just words for you. God is good.

Unknown said...

What a beautiful testimony! We all remember those first dreaded days and when it was such a touch and go situation. We put all our faith and prayers in God's hands. You have been such an inspiration as some would have walked away unwilling to to walk the path of faith you have walked. May God continue to bless you and your family and may you have many, many happy memories in your future! Congrats on the new addition that is expected also!!! Love to all.

crazymom said...

Teal, you and Dan are so amazing. Your strength is so powerful. You both have an amazing relationship with God, I look up to you. i remember that day, too, like it was yesterday. praise God that you all have come so far and have been so blessed! we miss you all so much and hope to see you all in the near future!